After all Its Not Necessary !

Yesterday I asked this question to myself ID-100220506

Is this all really Necessary ? 

To get a job, to get enrolled for some course, to save money to buy house , to achieve something in life, to make more money, to have a baby as soon as possible , to have big dreams like buying a yacht and a penthouse and doing something in life that is remarkable and something that would make people around me say WOW , and then seeing their expression would make me happy, happy as in real happy i guess.

Its clear, Is this all really necessary , i mean we only do certain things to feel happy and proud only when others are there to see them around who would cheer us, greet us , congratulate us, and work for us or just please us. Isn’t this true !

Imagine there is only you on this planet or some island living alone, would you still work hard to get more money, more success and more power when no one’s there to assess your assets or achievements you create.

There is really no need then is seems just not necessary , i feel your daily bread and sunlight is more than enough to sustain you and make you happy and bloom inside with bliss.

There is absolutely no need to work hard to run madly for money or  fame, when you can sit, because you have to learn to just “Flow and  keep doing what you are doing now”

When you acknowledge this you see a sudden change in you and surrounding  because we don’t stop we just go and keep doing what ID-10021450 we do daily, we stop to run  we just walk so there’s no hurry , we can enjoy life in  all its dimensions . Things  that you thought of before would naturally fall into  places and there will be no  running, and one day you will find it was not all  important even to run after those things you thought would bring joy to you.

The life and in between is all a journey that needs to be felt , not ruined in running  after things and sitting in office for hours and hours to get more money. The goal  of life is to End ultimately , so why pain yourself when things you collect can no  longer go with you, nor you will know what you did or created .

By far death is the only means to be one with the universe, and when the objective is to be one with the universe why so much hustle , pain and suffering which is largely not present but created .

To be Awake and Aware about knowing the importance of life and knowing what is needed and what is not needed is in itself an achievement marked forever.

And the one who knows it would become Happy, Here and Now in this present moment where nothing is needed at all. 

We Cannot Please Everyone !

First Understand this :

” yeh duniya tumhare baap ki nahin hai aur naahi tum is duniya ke thekedaar ho ”

( this world is not owned by your dad nor you’re the master of this world)

then why worry so much…?

I have wasted almost 1/3rd of my life in pleasing other’s actually by doing what other’s perceive is acceptable and appreciable. And to this day even after realizing that i cannot make everyone happy and if others have to REMAIN unhappy i really cannot be their clown forever trying to make them smile, for am not even getting PAID for that. then why the hell should i even try.

One must know that you only got this life which is at your hand , yes this life the very moment now that you are ID-10020806breathing , this is your’s its you and everything around is about you why the hell then do you waste it on others who don’t even realize a percent that you are doing it all for them and even if they know then why the hell do they let you do even more.

Stop doing this to yourself and most importantly not at the expense of your physical and mental well being, not at all.You only have this life and it will go , fade away vanish like this, the moment you stop breathing or you die of sudden death. We really don’t know when we will die, but we actually die slowly every day if we don’t do what we want to and do what others want us to do in order to please them.

Its not our job to run the world leave it to god, surrender it to him, If your boss is not happy with your work and finds you disgusting even after repeatedly trying to please him with your work , let him go to hell, stop pleasing then and there, don’t try to please, just do your work and take deep breaths and meditate .

Relax your mind and unwind a bit, make the most of what you want to do that pleases no one , not even you, do what naturally comes through that will make you just smile a while, not even laugh or happy, that will ease your muscles and nerves in the head explore the infinite free spaces that you will create , removing the clutter of this outside world and diving into your own self .

For other’s like your boss are born unhappy , you cannot do anything for them, other than your work. that’s all. And its totally not up to you or your task to change their nature or even please them with your juggling skills everyday. Because you will get tired someday you cannot innovate new skills everyday , someday you have to be yourself , your own real self that is YOU who cannot please anyone nor finds the need to do so.

So don’t let that breaking point come at all,and you need to bring yourself up to the surface with your real face and real smile soon as you realize this, in order to live happy and freely for your self and well being . Because you have just one life and you wont even remember to live fully in the next life if you think you can waste this one on others. Its simply not worth it.